We could learn a thing or two from Kim and Kris' wedding.. And no, it's not that kind of love. What I think happened is that Kim rushed things too far. She has loved the IDEA of a "perfect wedding". But a wedding is just a wedding in the end. Too often we focus on the outcome or the result we want because it's like a fairytale or a perfect ending, like being rich, being the best bookseller, being a famous movie star and all that. But that is the END part of the process. You have to love the PROCESS more than the outcome. If you love the outcome more than the process, then how will you get there?
People become famous or have great success not because they were born with innate gifts to achieve them but because they have loved the PROCESS in achieving them so much that with that great love and passion they achieve great things.
Kim has loved the IDEA of marriage, but she didn't foresee that it requires constant hard work. No matter how different two people are, as long as they are both willing to work things out, then they will last a lifetime.
I myself, love the idea to become a doctor, but I'm not really sure if I would risk all my efforts and actions to get there. I'm not sure. I don't know. And if I get there, will I love being a doctor? Or do I just merely want the two letter, M.D. written at the end of my name?
It's not enough to want something. You have to be sure that you will risk everything to get there and that you will love the "process" of "getting" there. You should love what you're doing and what you should be doing to get to the "END RESULT" that you are dreaming of. All I'm saying is with great love for something and with a great deal of obsession for something (in a good way), you can be limitless, as long as you never give up and keep on holding on, fighting for your "DREAMS".
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